Saturday, July 28, 2012

SAD NEWS about BFF

MaryElla has Stage 4 cancer. It is in her liver, left lung, lady organs and pancreas. Her Dr. said 2-3 months. Maybe 2 more months with chemo treatments....she has decided to "try" chemo and Monday she will have her first treatment. Her daughter will come home in August and be there for the month. I will go see her around August 8th...she is taking pain pills.
Your prayers are appreciated and I feel that her hubby, kids and Grandkids could use some prayer too.
THANK YOU...I just thought I would update you...
deb :(

43 comments:

Theresa said...

Oh Deb, I am sorry to hear that. I will pray for all of her loved ones!!! Big hugs to you dear friend.

Debby said...

So sorry Deb. I will pray for all of you. (((((HUGS)))))

Bargain Hunting Treasure Seeker said...

Awwww...so sorry to see this about your friend Deb! Big hugs and lots of prayers going out for you and your friend and her family!!! We were there just last February with my Aunt.

Angie said...

This makes me so sad. Sending prayers up for her and her family. Reaching out and giving you a big hug too because I can imagine how heavy your heart is right now. If you need to vent or anything, I am here for you anytime.

Love you, Angie

chris mckinley said...

I'm so sorry to hear this news. I will be sending prayers your way and to ME's family. Please know you and your BFF will be in my thoughts.

chris

Peggy said...

Deb, I am very sorry to hear this and will keep your friend, her family and you in our prayers,
Peggy

Terra said...

Deb, this is tough news and I pray for healing and comfort for your BFF, and strength for you and all who love her.

vivian said...

that is so terribly awful. Im so sorry to hear this. I will be praying for your friend and her family and for you to my friend. Cancer is such a horrible thing.
I'll be praying for special blessings for everyone. (((Hugs)))
xoxo

My Vintage Mending said...

Deb I am so sorry to hear your news. My heart aches for you all. Know that we will continue to pray for all to have strength and courage in this time of need. Stay strong for her and know that we are thinking of you all. Blessing my friend...Renee

Karen Mary Butterfly said...

I am so sorry Deb. Oh, cancer...you are horrible. I am very sad. Hold her hand. Tell her you love her. In the meantime I am praying for her,her family and you.

Faye ~ Wild Rose Vintage ~ Cabin Creek said...

I'm so sorry, this just makes me sick. I hate cancer, I wish they could stop this horrible thing forever.

The Polka Dot Closet said...

Oh DEB that sucks, didn't you just see her? Liver and pancreas is as bad as it gets.....Goodness I don't know how she can handle this! So difficult and sad for her, you, and her family.....Crap, it could be anyone of us, oh enjoy today, you never know!

Carol

All Ways Designing said...

Deb,

I'm so sorry to hear this news about your friend. She is on my Blog Prayer List and I'll be praying for MaryElla, her family and friends.

Jan ♥

Shabby Vintage Junk said...

Oh Deb I'm so sorry....I hope you can continue to be STRONG for your Dear Friend at this time....I can only imagine how overwhelming this must be for her....!!!!!

I hope the chemo is not too hard on her & gives her additional quality time....!!!!!

Tamarah xx

Erica of Golden Egg Vintage said...

Deb-
This is heartbreaking. I'm just so sorry, and don't know why things like this have to happen.
I'll be thinking about you and your BFF.
Erica

Dorothy Prudie Vintage said...

Deb,
So sorry to hear the news. I know you are hurting right now. I am sending up prayers for her, her family, friends and for you. Stupid Cancer. We are not promised tomorrow, but we are promised eternity with Christ Jesus. Be strong Deb.

Pixie said...

Deb, so very sorry for this sad news. Will be keeping you all in my thougths.

Claire said...

I am so sorry to hear this sad new. Be kind to yourself x

boopnut said...

Oh Deb, so sorry. Will pray for her family and for you. Remember to focus on the quality of her life and not the quantity.
Deb

Diane said...

Oh my goodness. This is so very sad. I know firsthand how this devastating diagnosis can affect the person, the family and friends. God be with you all during this time.
God Bless, Diane

Kathy @ Creative Home Expressions said...

I'm so sorry to hear this, Deb. I will certainly be praying for her family.

Kim @ Touch of Nostalgia said...

I'm so sorry, so very sad. My healing thoughts and prayers go out to all.

Holly- Cutie Pie Cottage said...

What a blow this must be to you all! I know the Drs. feel they must give a time frame so folks can prepare but thankfully God holds our life and time in HIS hands and the Drs. are often wrong. ♥

Kim said...

So, so sorry to hear this sad news about your friend Deb. I will say prayers for you both.

Kim

Lynn said...

Deb,
So sorry to hear about your sweet BFF!! I will add her, her family, and you to my prayer list. Hang in there. It is tough. We lost my hubby's anut and uncle within 3 years of each other from the same form of pancreatic cancer. They are testing blood work from their children as it was rare for spouses to die from the same strain of cancer. I hate that word.
big hugs,
Lynn

Gina said...

Many hugs...a difficult time indeed for all her loved ones (especially her BFF). :(

Shirley Hatfield said...

So sorry about your friend. Your visit with her will be a bittersweet one. Many hugs and good wishes coming your way.

DogsMom said...

Sending prayers and best wishes.
We are dealing with a similar situation in our family at the moment, but things seem to be going better than expected.

Andy's Attic said...

Sending all goodness to your BFF, her family and to you! I can't even imagine finding that out about my BFF.

vintage grey said...

Deb, I am so sorry. Will be praying for ME and her treatments! Hugs to her and you! xo Heather

Linda @ A La Carte said...

Deb there aren't words to tell you how sorry I am for you and your friend and her family. I know this is a huge thing to take in. I'm praying for all of you! hugs, Linda

{Bellamere Cottage} said...

I'm so sorry to hear about your treasured friend... Of course... prayers going up for peace, comfort and direction... God changes things...

xoxoxox
Spencer

Blessed Serendipity said...

I am so sorry Deb. Prayers and love to you and your friend. I have a friend that is very sick and her health keeps declining rapidly. It is not easy to watch someone you love endure pain and sickness. I hope that you will be able to spend time with her and love her through this.

xo,
Danielle

Rosie said...

Terrible news. But our God is still a good God and loves her terribly. I will continue to pray for her and her family.
rosie

JunkStuffTreasures said...

Thanks for the update. Miracles can happen, keep praying....

Sandy said...

Oh Deb,
My heart just sank when I read this note....this is what my dearest friend Scott had, he was told possibly a year.....he lived 6 weeks.....PLEASE be with her as much as you can, let her know how much she means to you.... enjoy each other to the max!!!! I have mixed emotions about the chemo, but will keep them to myself....please tell her to take the pain meds!!!!! Scott took way too long to get comfortable.....I am so sorry.....I wish I was there to give you a hug. Love, Sandy

Happy Cottage Quilter said...

Deb, I lost my BFF 8 years ago when she lost her battle with cancer. I still miss her so much. The one thing I would say is tell her you love her. You can't say that to those we love often enough. Praying she will have peace and her family will be strong.

Jocelyn @
http://justalittlesouthernhospitality.blogspot.com/

Kim K. said...

I'm so sorry...hugs...

Lynn Stevens said...

I'm so sorry to hear such sad news, Prayers on the way!
Cherish each and every day as none of us know when our time will come.
Hugs Lynn

Joyce's Journey said...

Oh Deb! This is so sad. I will go visit her in blogland. Thanks for the heads up.

Joyce's Journey said...

Oh Deb! This is so sad. I will go visit her in blogland. Thanks for the heads up.

Little Susie Home Maker said...

So sorry, Deb. Of course she is in my prayers, and all her loved ones, too.
Susie

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